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Choosing A Trainer

As a full-time professional dog trainer since 1984, I have heard many stories about the other trainers working in this area. Some of the stories are good, some are sad and some are really horrifying. Just this week I heard one of the worst ones I’ve heard in months. I had a phone call from a woman whose 3 year old Chihuahua isn’t housetrained. A year ago she hired a local trainer to help with the problem. He put a choke chain on the little fellow and yanked him so hard and so often that he ended up with severe hemorhages in both his eyes and his owner had to take him to the vet. Luckily, it left no permanent physical damage, but I shudder to think of the emotional damage done to both the dog and his owner. She feels terribly guilty that she allowed the “training” to continue for twenty minutes or so before she put a stop to it. Of course, she had no idea he was injuring her dog, and the trainer was supposedly a professional who knew how to do his job….

I wish I could tell you that this was an isolated or especially bad incident – but the sad truth is I have heard hundreds of similar stories over the years. The particular trainer in this story is one of about five in our area who set off red flags in my mind whenever I hear of someone who worked with them. I have heard so many stories of truly abusive “training” methods that I have come to expect the type of story that follows the mention of one of their names. Of course, anyone might have an experience with a trainer that leaves them somehow unsatisfied or doubting if the correct methods were used – people have different opinions all the time. Usually the stories I hear from people of unsuccessful training sound to me as if either the owner failed to understand or follow through on good methods, or the trainer was not as well educated as one might hope, but clearly had good intentions.

Because we have no state or federal certification for dog trainers, choosing a qualified trainer is not an easy job. One generally assumes that one can leaf through the yellow pages to contract for any service by some price comparison shopping, and although one expects some variance in quality it is expected that all of the “professionals” offerring their services will have the same sort of knowledge and skills. Not so with dog trainers. Because it is a completely unregulated business, anyone at all can claim to be a trainer. Furthermore, it is almost completely impossible to prosecute abusive methods, because all of them have been recommended at some time in a dog training book, and so can be justified in court! I know of a town in Rhode Island where a police detective spent a year investigating and trying to close down a local trainer for complaints ranging from fraud to dog-napping to the injury and death of several dogs…and yet he is still in business.

Whenever I hear a story that seems to me to indicate that abusive techniques were used, I strongly encourage the owner to send registered letters to the Attorney General, the police, the Better Business Bureau, local vets who might be recommending the trainer, the S.P.C.A., local newspapers and their animal shelter. So far, I have not heard of a single case where this led to any successful action against the trainer, but it is my hope that if people keep reporting these cases then sooner or later something will be done to improve matters.

So…how do you choose a dog trainer? The Association of Pet Dog Trainers (apdt.com) gives guidelines which include the following advice:

You want to be comfortable with the training tools and methods used by the instructor. A skilled and professional dog trainer employs humane training methods which are not harmful to the dog and/or handler, and avoids the practices of hanging, beating, kicking, shocking, and all similar procedures or training devices that could cause the dog great pain, distress, or that have imminent potential for physical harm. You have the absolute right to stop any trainer or other animal care professional who, in your opinion, is causing your dog undue harm or distress.

A conscientious trainer will stay informed about innovations in dog training and behavior tools and techniques. Check to see if the instructor is a member of any educational organizations such as the APDT, and whether s/he pursues ongoing educational opportunities.

A quick, easy elimination question for a trainer is to ask whether he or she uses choke chains. If the answer is yes, then the trainer is admitting that they are not up to date on the newer, kinder (more effective!) training methods, and you should not hire them. Another easy test is to ask if they use clicker training and head halters such as Gentle Leader or Halti. Both of these are excellent tools to use, and a trainer who advocates their use is likely to be better educated and more humane. (However, knowledge of better techniques is no guarantee of a non-abusive trainer. The person the police detective tried so hard to shut down is one of the better educated trainers in our area….I guess he just has personal issues !) Ask for several referrals, especially from vets. Although many vets recommend trainers with no more knowledge of their techniques than that they received a brochure from them, they also may have heard abuse stories, and be able to steer you away from someone.

I realize I paint a grim picture, and I am sorry for that. It is my hope that if the public is better informed about the care needed in choosing a dog trainer, they will slowly put the bad trainers out of business so they can’t harm any more dogs…or better yet these trainers will learn the newer, kinder, more effective methods and then everyone will benefit!

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Clicker Training

Clicker training was originally used for marine mammal training. Imagine that you are a dolphin trainer, and you want to teach a dolphin to jump out of the water on command for the big show. You can’t put a dolphin in a choke chain and yank it out of the water, and it isn’t easy to hang a piece of fish way up in the air to act as a lure for jumping….you have to just wait around for the dolphin to jump on his own. Now comes the problem.

Animals assume that both rewards and punishments are connected to the behavior they were exhibiting at the instant they received the reward or punishment. Therefore, if your timing is poor the animal will NOT be able to learn what you are trying to teach! If your timing is poor with rewards, the animal will seem to be “stupid”; she will be learning things that you did not intend to teach, and failing to learn the things you thought you were teaching. (If your timing is poor with punishments, you may create bizarre phobias, which are very hard to undo, not to mention cruel.) You are sitting on the side of the pool with a bucket of fish to reward the dolphin for jumping, but unless you can put the fish into the dolphin’s mouth at the apex of the jump, he will not realize what the reward is for. He would assume that it was for the behavior he was doing at the instant he received the fish – probably swimming up to you. You need a way to mark the rewardable behavior for the dolphin – a way to say to him “THAT jump you did over there earned you THIS fish over here.” By associating the sound of the click with receiving a treat, you can create a “reward marker” to help you communicate clearly with the dolphin.

Once the dolphin has figured out that every time she hears a click she is going to get a treat, then you can begin to use the clicker as a training tool. You sit by the side of the pool with your clicker, your bucket of fish and your newly clicker- aware dolphin and wait for her to jump. When she does, you Click ! at the apex of the jump. The dolphin, up in the air, hears the click and says to herself Click!? I’m about to get a treat!” She lands in the water, swims up to you and you give her a piece of fish. And now she does a truly incredible intellectual leap – she says to herself “I wonder if I could cause you to click & treat again by repeating the behavior I was doing at the instant I heard the click?” She experiments by jumping, you click at the apex of the jump and reward her with a treat when she arrives at poolside, and now you have a clicker-trained dolphin. She understands that although the reward came after the jump, it was the jump – the clicked behavior – which earned it. You can now use the clicker to mark any behavior you wish to reward, even though it happens far away from you and the treats, and/or happens for only a split second in time.

In order to create the association between click and treat in your dog’s mind, you simply click, pause one second, and then give a treat. The one second pause is important to the learning process, because if the click and the treat occurred simultaneously, the treat might be so distracting that the dog wouldn’t really hear the click. Ideally, the dog should hear the click and say to himself “What’s that funny noise? Oh! Here’s a treat!” Now simply repeat click-pause-treat about 50 times, and then give the dog at least a one hour brain rest before doing it again. Don’t look for any particular behavior during the first training session, just click & treat regardless of what the dog is doing. During your first several clicker sessions, please muffle the sound of the click by holding it against your body under your arm – for some dogs the sound of the click is at first too loud and startling and they may develop an aversion to it before they have a chance to figure out it predicts treats !

During the third session (although you could try this earlier if you think the dog may have caught on unusually fast) you should test the dog’s knowledge of the clicker. Command or lure a simple behavior such as “Sit”, and when the dog obeys, click and then TOSS the treat on the floor thereby causing the dog to get up out of the sit to collect the treat. Repeat this 5 times, and then on the 6th just wait – do not give any command or lure. Simply wait about 20 seconds to see what the dog does. If he has figured out that the click marks the rewardable behavior, then he will return from eating his treat and quickly sit again, probably giving you a look that says “See? I’m doing it !” If he does not sit within about 20 seconds, then he hasn’t yet figured out the connection. Return to doing another session of click-pause-treat before you try testing again. If he does sit within about 20 seconds, then click and toss the treat, and repeat this 4 more times.

The first test exercise looks like this:
“Sit”…dog sits…click & toss treat…dog gets up, eats treat & returns to you…
“Sit”…dog sits…click & toss treat…dog gets up, eats treat & returns to you…
Repeat three more times, then:
Wait up to 20 seconds…dog sits…click & toss treat…dog gets up, eats treat & returns to you…
Wait up to 20 seconds…dog sits…click & toss treat…dog gets up, eats treat & returns to you…
Repeat three more times, then move on to the next exercise.
Or Wait up to 20 seconds…dog does not sit….you go back to click–pause-treat 50 times.

If your dog has responded correctly by sitting during the second part of this exercise when you were not commanding or luring the sit, then he may be clicker trained. On the other hand, it might be a false positive. For many dogs who have been trained to sit on command, if you tease them with food they sit as a sort of default response. Therefore it is important that you now move on to test the dog with a different behavior. Furthermore, I don’t want any one behavior (such as "Sit") to be too closely connected to the clicker in the early stages of clicker education, or the dog may decide that clicking is connected only to sitting, and it will be hard to convince him that the click can be used to mark any rewardable behavior.

To test the dog with a second behavior, choose any other behavior your dog already knows on command or can easily be lured into, such as “Down” (ie – lie down) or “Bark” or “Shake hands”. Use the same formula of commanding it 5 times and then waiting to see if the dog produces it on his own when you simply wait. If your dog succeeds this time, then he is clicker trained ! Choose one more behavior to put through the test formula just to help the dog understand that the click can be used to mark any behavior, and then you are ready to begin using the clicker as a training tool. If your dog does not succeed at this level, it means the correct sit he produced earlier was a false positive. Just return to another session of click-pause-treat before you try testing again.

If your dog does not know three commanded behaviors, then here are three suggestions for easy behaviors to lure.To lure a “Sit” : Think about the way a dog’s body works : in a sitting position the dog’s head is higher (and his bottom lower!) than in a standing position. So…hold a treat to the dog’s nose, but don’t let him get it. Keeping the dog licking at the treat, slowly raise your hand up (until the dog is on his front tiptoes) and back a little towards his tail. As his nose goes UP his bottom sinks DOWN, and Sit Happens! Click at the instant his bottom touches the ground and toss the treat away from the dog.

If the dog jumps up in the air on his hind legs, you held the treat too high. Lower your hand a little. If the dog’s muzzle isn’t pointing to the sky, with the dog standing on tiptoes, then your hand isn’t high enough – raise it a little. If the dog isn’t continuously licking at the treat you won’t be able to get his muzzle up in the air. If he isn’t trying to keep his nose on the treat, try these suggestions: tease him with the treat; try a yummier treat; give him one piece for free to get him interested; reduce the number of distractions so you and the treats are more interesting.

To lure a “Down” : In a “Down” the dog’s head is near the floor, and the rest of the body is on the floor. Start teaching “Down” from a “Sit” - -it is usually easier. With the dog sitting, lower the treat to the floor, right in between the dog’s front paws. She will probably crouch over trying to reach it. When she is bent over, nose to the treat, move the treat away a few inches. Hopefully her nose will follow the treat and she will slide or crawl into a “Down”. Click the instant the entire body is on the ground and toss the treat away from the dog.

To teach “Down” from a stand, put the treat between the front paws and when the dog’s nose is on the treat move it a few inches in towards her hind legs. Hopefully she will sink into a “Down”.
If the dog stands instead of going into a “Down”, try these helpers :
a)Wait, with the treat in your hand, on the floor. As long as the dog is continuing to lick at your hand, you are making progress! Eventually the dog will lie down and then you click and toss the treat.
b)Sit on the floor with one leg bent (knee pointing up). Hold the treat under your leg and lure the dog to follow it. As the dog crawls under your leg, his body will end up in the “Down” position – that is when you click and give the treat. After a few repetitions, see if you can get the dog to lie down when only his head has gone under your leg, and then try without the bent leg. Now you can begin luring the dog into the “Down” as first described, and click and toss the treat.

To lure a dog to “Target” your hand : Hold out your flat hand, palm towards the dog, right in front of his face. Be ready to click the instant he sniffs your hand, which he will probably do immediately. If you fail to mark that first sniff with a click, you may have a hard time getting him to do it again! Remove your target hand as soon as you have clicked, and give the dog a treat. (No need to toss the treat this time, as he has already “undone” the behavior by moving his head away after sniffing.) Repeat about 5 times with your hand always offered in the same place, then try changing the picture by offering your hand to sniff on the other side of his muzzle. Repeat, then offer your hand over his head so he must raise his muzzle to sniff you. Repeat, now offer your hand about 5 inches away so he has to stretch his neck or take a step to reach you. Repeat, then continue to slowly increase how far the dog must move to reach your hand each time. Change your hand position from his right to left side, and from above his head to near his chest level. Soon you will be able to move your hand far enough away that the dog has to take several steps to reach it – now he understands targeting!

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Separation Anxiety

Separation Anxiety is a term used to describe the behavior of a dog who becomes extremely distressed when left alone. Dogs who suffer from this condition show their distress in a variety of ways – howling, whining, barking, drooling, panting, chewing objects, chewing or scatching at doors and windows, and urinating, defecating or vomiting. Some dogs show all of these behaviors when left alone, some only a couple. Some dogs show several of these behaviors when left alone, and yet do not suffer from separation anxiety – they just aren’t housetrained and enjoy chewing!

Because dogs are pack animals who would always prefer being with their friends to being alone, almost all dogs suffer from separation anxiety to some extent – they are always sad to see you leave, delighted to see you return, and would rather come along than be left behind. However, most dogs adjust well to our daily absences and do not develop aberrant behaviors as a result. Determining whether or not your dog actually has clinical Separation Anxiety can be difficult, and solving it is even harder, so if you suspect your dog has it I recommend you call a behavior expert to help with the diagnosis and treatment.

There are three different types of Separation Anxiety –Type A is an overwhelming attachment to a particular person or another animal – most often another dog. For a Type A dog, it makes no difference who else may be present to keep him company – if his special friend leaves he suffers terribly. The second, Type B, is a dog who suffers when separated from his entire family, regardless of who else is present. In other words, he is fine so long as at least one family member is with him, but if he is left with strangers he takes no comfort from their presence. Type C dogs are fine so long as they have company – friend or stranger - but cannot tolerate being entirely alone.

There are several possible causes for Separation Anxiety. The first is a genetic prediliction for it – all dogs are born with a specific, individual personality which accounts for about 60-70 % of their adult behavior and temperament. (The other 30-40% is determined by Imprinting, experience and training.) If a dog is born with a very high pack drive – meaning a strong desire to be with others – and is also emotionally sensitive and/or very dominant, then there is a strong possibility that she may develop S.A.

The second cause is trauma, especially if the episode occurs during Imprinting. Imprinting is a stage puppies go through between 8 and 16 weeks of age during which anything the puppy learns becomes part of her permanent knowledge and personality. Imprinted knowledge – good or bad – can never be unlearned. (See the first issue of Animal Print magazine for more information on imprinting in puppies!) If a puppy spends too long alone during imprinting, especially in a place which is frightening to her, it can do permanent damage. This is often seen in pups who are shipped from puppy mills to brokers and then pet stores - being put into a crate alone for many hours in an airplane can imprint S. A. – not to mention fear of crates, motion and loud noises !

If the trauma occurs later in life it is not necessarily permanent, but depending on the severity of the episode can still be very hard to reverse. If a dog changes homes several times, or goes from a good home to a bad home, this can lead to S.A. Dogs adopted from Animal Shelters often have S.A., and it frequently leads to the new owner giving up on the dog and returning it to the Shelter instead of trying to solve the problem. Of course, with each return and rehome the problem gets worse until finally the Shelter decides the dog is unadoptable and euthanizes him. Although there are things Shelters can do to minimize the occurrence of S.A. and to provide the new owners with strategies to help prevent it and solve it, there is not much that can be done to solve the problem in the Shelter environment. Luckily, most dogs who develop S.A. as a result of abandonment and rehoming can overcome it within a few weeks or months – tragically, few are given the opportunity to do so.

If the trauma is the result of some terrifying episode, it can be harder to reverse. If the dog has a fear of thunder storms this can evolve into S.A. Being in the house during a burglary, or spending several days alone in the house with an owner who has died can also lead to severe S.A.

Another factor involved in S.A. is that the owner often accidentally creates or increases it ! Giving your dog big, emotional hellos and goodbyes, letting your dog out of the crate while he is crying or scratching at the door or punishing your dog when you come home to a mess can all contribute to S.A.

Sometimes Separation Anxiety is caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain – the same as anxietyin humans. If this is a factor for your dog, then medication is necessary. In a few cases the medication alone is enough to solve the problem, and the dog may even be able to go off the meds in a few months after his brain chemistry has adjusted. More commonly, though, the meds are only are part of the solution, and a complete training program is also needed.

S.A. can become much worse as a result of the wrong diet (food allergies are often a contributing factor), boredom, excessive dominance and lack of exercise. Therefore a change of diet, food seeking games to entertain the dog when alone, a dominance reduction program and plenty of exercise are frequently part of an S.A. program.

For many dogs, a simple solution to the problem is to get a second dog! Now she never needs to be alone – she always has her dog friend with her. In some cases, the addition of a second dog – or sometimes even a cat – can solve the problem within days, without any other intervention needed. Be aware, however, that if that second dog should die the problem will probably return with great intensity.

Training programs for dogs with S.A. are available, and very successful. However, they are likely to take weeks or more likely months to complete, and are often sabotaged by the fact that most owners do need to leave the dog alone every day when they go to work. Bringing the dog to Dog Day Care during the training program, or involving a Petsitter in the program can help tremendously to improve the success rate.

If you suspect your dog may have Separation Anxiety, call a dog behavior expert for a consultation and to establish an individualized training program. Above all, don’t assume that giving the dog to someone else will solve the problem – it is far more likely to make it worse, and you may be your dog’s only hope!

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Children and Animals
This talk was given in French to the Association of Homeopathic Physicians,
in Paris, France, in December, 1993. It was also given at the International
Conference of Homeopathic Physicians in Quebec, Canada in November, 1996.
The French text version is available upon request,
and was also published in the '93 Conference D'Homeopathie.

In my work as a canine and feline behavioral therapist I often see the results (both good and bad) of the interaction of children with companion animals. Some of what I see is wonderful – few friendships are as intense and faithful as those between children and their pets. However, all too often I see the frustrating, sad and sometimes tragic results of their interactions. At least once a week I get a phone call from a distraught parent seeking help. The problem can generally be fitted into one or more of three categories – displacement, lack of privacy for the animal, or triggering of prey instinct. In order to better understand these categories I think a brief, simplified overview of canine and feline psychology will be helpful.

Dogs are descended from wolves, and we have been able to learn a great deal about how dogs think and communicate by studying wolf packs. In a wolf pack, one wolf is the leader, the Alpha, and the others are all ranked followers. Every wolf knows exactly where he or she fits in to this dominance hierarchy. At the same time that this hierarchy is well established, it is also constantly in a state of flux. Each wolf occasionally attempts to improve his or her ranking in the pack, but they almost never fight to resolve these conflicts. Instead, they use tone of voice, facial expressions, body posture, proximity to one another and certain ritualized behaviors which are to some extent culturally inherited, meaning that they differ somewhat from one pack to another.

When we study dog packs we see the same basic behaviors seen in wolf packs, and when dogs live with human beings they think of them as being members of their dog pack. A dog probably thinks of his human family as being funny looking dogs with poor communication skills!

The problems can arise when the dog says something perfectly clearly in dog language, but the human does not notice, misunderstands or responds inconsistently. Likewise, the human’s attempts to communicate may well be misunderstood by the dog. Both of these miscommunication situations result in behavioral problems.

Cats are descended from a European/Asian wildcat, possibly now extinct, but closely related to the modern European, Asian and African wildcats. Domestication has changed the cat far less than the dog. The two primary changes have been some relatively minor physical alterations of head shape, color and coat type, and the willingness to live in close proximity to members of its own and other species. The cat is not a pack animal. Indeed, the only wild feline to live in a group is the lion. Domestic cats have been selectively bred to tolerate and even enjoy close companionship, basically an extension of the mother-kitten bond, but no amount of breeding can create a cat with a “pack mentality”. This single fact is the biggest difference between dogs and cats.

A cat has no innate desire to be socially acceptable, no knowledge of the complex appeasement behaviors of both humans and dogs. Abuse a dog and he will come back to plead for your love. Abuse a cat and he is likely to shun you forever. Ironically, this is both the reason that cats often dislike children and the reason that cats have fewer aggressive episodes with children than dogs do. The child unwittingly frightens or hurts the cat and the cat exhibits her displeasure by staring, crouching, tail twitching, ear flattening, freezing, growling, hissing, spitting, jabbing with a paw or scratching, and if these attempts to communicate do not work the cat usually gives up and runs away – and stays away.

Because of the dog’s greater desire for social contact (and because she cannot jump on top of cabinets!) the dog is more likely to respond aggressively when frightened, hurt or annoyed by a child. The dog expects the child to understand what she says and persists in her attempts to communicate.

The animal’s problems often begin with the arrival of a new baby. For many couples the animal was the “baby” until a human baby arrived. This often leads to a sudden, dramatic change in the animal’s life. This is the first category – displacement.

Banned from the bed and bedroom, rarely hugged and kissed, constantly shooed away – especially from the baby, infrequently walked or played with….ignored. The cat, presented with this sudden rejection, frequently withdraws from social contact, and may develop litter box problems (a frequent stress reaction in cats). The dog, suffering deeply from his banishment from the inner circle of the family pack, frequently develops a wide range of behavior problems.

Boredom, frustration and lack of exercise can lead to chewing, digging, stealing, barking, whining, howling, house training accidents and self-mutilation. Jealousy and loneliness increase the dog’s general pushiness, his frequency and intensity of demands for attention. Most owners respond to these unwanted behaviors by punishing and isolating the dog – all of which increases the problem.

As the child begins to crawl and then to toddle we add the second category – lack of privacy. Approached by the child, whom the dog may already dislike because he has been displaced, the dog gets up and walks away. Often, the child pursues the dog. Again and again the dog leaves, and is pursued, until finally the dog has had enough and decides to use aggressive language to discourage the child. The dog will try stiffening, staring, growling, snarling, snapping in the air and explosive barking. Of all of these, only the explosive bark seems to deter most children, probably because it is so loud. The dog cannot comprehend that the child does not understand him. In dog language he has said “leave me alone” very clearly. When the child continues to invade the dog’s privacy, the dog assumes the child is a disobedient puppy who needs to be taught a lesson.

In dog society, this lesson takes the form of a very inhibited bite. The vast majority of children bitten by dogs have minor red marks or scratches, slight bruising or very shallow puncture wounds. Deep punctures, tearing, profound bruising and broken bones are very rarely seen, although even a small dog is capable of doing tremendous damage. The reason that dogs rarely bite very hard is that their intention is to teach a lesson, to reprimand, not to injure. The dog sees the child as a badly behaved puppy who refuses to listen to his elders warnings and needs some manners. To injure the “puppy” would not benefit the pack and so the dog inhibits the force of his bite. Unfortunately, human skin is more fragile than dog skin, and parents who may never have noticed all the dog’s warnings to the child certainly do notice bite marks !

If the parents immediately (within 2 seconds) punish the dog for biting it will probably temporarily reduce or eliminate the dog’s overt dispays of aggression – growling, snarling, snapping, explosive barking and biting. However, it will not improve the way the dog feels about the child, and fear of punishment is now added to the dog’s emotional turmoil.

At this point, or perhaps before the dog chooses aggression, when he is still in the stage of trying to walk away from the child, the dog will display “calming signals”. These signals are inherited from the dog’s wolf ancestors. Wolves are social predators, meaning they hunt as a pack. They depend on each other. If they fought and injured each other every time they had a conflict, the very survival of the pack would be in danger because one or more of the wolves would be unfit to hunt. Therefore, conflict avoidance and non-violent conflict resolution are of the utmost importance to them. To this end, wolves use calming signals. These are facial expressions and body gestures used by both wolves and dogs to express anything from mild nervousness to extreme fear. Since these signals exist on a continuum from very mild to very extreme, it is important that one also assess the rest of the dog's body language and the existing situation when interpreting them.

When a dog feels nervous or threatened, he will avert his eyes, squint or blink; turn his head aside; lick his nose, lips or the roof of his mouth; yawn; flatten out the ears; lift a front paw; scratch himself or sniff the ground. Calming signals come in clusters of two or more shown simultaneously. For example, a very common cluster is "Yawn- Lick- Turn the head" or "Blink-Lick-Ears Flat". Also, calming signals are often shown repetitively, or in escalating intensity, until the problem is resolved - the threat the dog perceived is reduced or eliminated.

When approached by the child, the dog will display calming signals, assuming the child will understand her. If these signals are ignored and the child continues to approach – especially if the approach involves an over-the-head pat, hug, or grabbing the collar, the dog is likely to resort again to aggression.

The lack of privacy aggression will become much,much worse if the dog is guarding a valued possession – food, dog toys or bones, stolen delicious food, stolen objects like shoes, gloves or children’s toys, beds or other favored sleeping areas. Likewise, it will get worse if the dog feels cornered, is startled awake from sleep or is in pain.

The third category involves the triggering of the dog’s prey instinct. As wolf descendents, all dogs have a hunting instinct, but some breeds – and some individual dogs – exhibit it much more strongly than others.

The distressed, high pitched wailing, thrashing, small size and strange smell of a human infant can trigger predatory behavior in some dogs, but this is fairly rare. Most dogs figure out quickly that the infant is human, and as such part of the pack. More frequently the prey oriented behavior is not triggered until the child starts to run. From about eighteen months to five years of age many children are chased, knocked down and nipped by enthusiatic dogs playing “chase the rabbit”. At this age, the dog clearly knows the child is not a rabbit but he chooses to “pretend” he is, in the same way a dog will pretend a ball is a rabbit and chase it. Terrier breeds, with their strong prey instinct, are often especially fond of this game. Herding dogs (such as shepherds, collies, rottweilers etc.) with no sheep or cattle to herd will give themselves the job of herding the children. They become self-employed. If the child squeals, flails, runs, or falls to the ground the dog becomes increasingly excited.

Dogs play fight and play bite with each other as their primary means of social play and bonding. When a dog does the same to a child, the results can be unhappy. Because children are impulsive, inconsistent and excitable, and often have difficulty following a training program for the dog, it is up to the parent to be very watchful and responsible. No matter how reliable a dog’s behavior has always been in the past, young children and dogs should simply never be left unsupervised.

Sometimes the problem starts because the parents get a puppy or kitten for the young child, hoping they will “grow up together”. All too often this does not work out well. My advice is do not get a puppy or kitten if you have a child under three years old. If your child is between three and five, think about getting a six to twelve month old pup or kitten instead of an infant. Dogs and cats who are over two years old and are definitely known to love children are often a better choice for families with very young children. No one with a very young child has the time or energy to raise an animal properly and the child and the animal may accidentally frighten or injure each other, but an adult cat or dog who needs a new home due to allergies, moving or divorce might fit in very well.

I think children can learn and benefit a great deal from living with animals. Responsibility, consistency, unquestioning love and, eventually, death. My husband and I live on a farm with three children and twenty animals including five dogs and eight cats. The relationships between them are wonderful and enriching for both the animals and the people. However we had some difficult times when the children were young. By looking at things from the animals’ point of view, carefully observing their signals, monitoring all interactions between the children and animals and doing appropriate exercises with them I was able to bring everyone safely through those periods.

If people learn how animals think and communicate and take necessary steps before trouble arises, most problems can be prevented. Even after a serious problem exists, it can usually be corrected. It is very rare that I need to recommend placing a dog or cat in a new home with no children, and rarer still that I euthanise an animal for aggression. With understanding and proper training methods we can all live peacefully and safely together.

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Calming Signals

Dogs are very social creatures, just like their wolf ancestors. Wolves are social predators, meaning they hunt as a pack. They depend on each other. If they fought and injured each other every time they had a conflict, the very survival of the pack would be in danger because one or more of the wolves would be unfit to hunt. Therefore, conflict avoidance and non-violent conflict resolution are of the utmost importance to them. To this end, wolves use "calming signals". These are facial expressions and body gestures used by both wolves and dogs to express anything from recognition of one's current inferior status - and hence mild nervousness when in close proximity to a more dominant animal - to extreme fear. Since these signals exist on a continuum from very mild to very extreme, it is important that one also assess the rest of the dog's body language and the existing situation when interpreting them.

The Calming Signals are as follows:

  • Eyes - squinting, blinking or looking away
  • Turning the head aside
  • A head movement in which the head is lowered somewhat between the shoulders but the muzzle is lifted
  • Flattening out the ears by pulling them alongside the head
  • Yawning
  • Licking - the nose, lips, and roof of the mouth - these licks are usually very quick, without much tongue showing
  • Lifting a front paw - not a reaching paw, just lifted up. This can occur in any body position
  • Moving slowly
  • Moving towards someone in an arc, rather than a head-on approach
  • Turning away completely so the dog's back is towards the source of her concern,
    usually while sitting or lying down
  • Sudden scratching of the neck with a hind paw or chewing at the rear end
  • Sudden sniffing of the ground, especially if the dog keeps his eyes on you while doing it

These last two are most often seen when the dog is being ordered by an angry owner to "Get over here right now!" The dog is essentially attempting to buy time by saying to the person "I cannot approach you when you are so angry and scary. I'll just sniff the ground until you can calm down".

Clearly, a dog may also do any of these things for a reason other than the exhibition of Calming Signals…so how do you know the difference? Calming signals come in clusters of two or more shown simultaneously. For example, a very common cluster is "Yawn—Lick—Turn the head" or "Blink—Lick—Ears Flat". Also, Calming Signals are often shown repetitively, or in escalating intensity, until the problem is resolved - the threat the dog perceived is reduced or eliminated.

Different dogs favor different signal clusters, and also use different clusters in different situations. The most valuable way to learn your dog's own signals is to simply observe your dog!

Once you have become familiar with Calming Signals and with your dog's use of them, you can easily read your dog's emotional state and use that information to help with your training.

You can also use Calming Signals yourself to help calm your dog down when he is feeling stressed. I have found the most useful combination to be yawn- turn my head aside- smack my lips. Repeat this until your dog visibly relaxes and returns a Calming Signal to you. Blinking is also very helpful. When approaching a dog, move slowly and in an arc rather than head on, and stand sideways as you get closer to him.

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Motivation

The Two Methods of Motivating Behavior

There are only two ways to motivate anyone – whether animal or human – to do something. You can either use avoidance of something unpleasant, or you can use gaining something pleasant.

The first way is the old-fashioned approach to dog training – “ ‘sit’ or I will jerk on the choker “. The motivation – the driving force behind the behavior – is the dog’s desire to avoid the unpleasant jerk. This method does work with about 75% of all dogs, but it is slow, unpleasant for both dog and trainer, and creates barriers against future learning. Because the dog has been punished for exhibiting behaviors that were not currently being requested by the trainer (for example, standing instead of sitting) the dog is then unwilling to offer “stand” in the future. Furthermore, it will become increasingly unlikely that the dog will offer any new, creative behavior, so activities such as Agility, Freestyle, Tracking or Search and Rescue become extremely difficult or impossible for the dog.

With 25% of all dogs, this method of training does not work at all. The frequent punishment involved may cause a dominant, irritable dog to become defensively aggressive, and may cause such overwhelming trauma in a submissive, fearful dog that he becomes incapable of learning anything other than defensive phobias. These dogs used to be considered “untrainable” and were often “ euthanized “- that is, put to death.

The second approach to motivation, gaining something pleasant, is the new (enlightened!) method of training. The driving force behind the behavior is the dog’s desire to gain something pleasant – failure to perform the required behavior means failure to earn the reward. No fear, no pain, no unpleasantness, no barriers to future learning !! And, no “ untrainable “ dogs. None ! Motivating any dog is simply a matter of discovering what it is the dog desires and then delivering that reward as a consequence for a correct response.

What Rewards do Dogs Find Motivating?

A “reward” is whatever a dog wants now. If the dog wants you to open the door so he can run into the garden, then opening the door for him is a big reward. However, if the dog is exhausted from a long run and having a nap, then opening the door is not rewarding at all.

All animals are born wanting/needing certain things. These things are called primary motivators. You don’t have to learn to enjoy and desire them – it is an automatic response. The primary motivators are food, water, sex and comfortable body temperature. Sex and body temperature are extremely difficult to control as rewards. Water is only rewarding if one is thirsty – difficult to control, not to mention unkind. But food ! Most dogs are eager to eat delicious food (meat especially) at any time, whether hungry or not. Dogs will eat when too hot, too cold, uncomfortable, thirsty, sad, happy, sleepy, nervous, excited….in fact only substantial fear or pain (or, ironically, sexual excitement) will interfere with a dog’s desire for delicious food. This makes food a superb reward for use in training and maintaining good behavior. It is very easy for us to control, and most dogs are eager for it at any time!

The Role of Praise and Touch in Training

Most dogs learn to enjoy being praised and touched, but they are not born enjoying it. They learn that being touched (stroked, massaged, scratched) can feel wonderful, and that praise is a predictor of Good Things for Dogs. So why not use touch and praise as the only rewards for correct responses ? This is what used to be recommended in old-fashioned dog training, when everyone believed that using food was “bribing” the dog and should never be done.
The difficulties with using praise and touch as your only forms of reward are as follows :
a) The dog has to like you. This means that you can only successfully train dogs who are extremely friendly and outgoing, and dogs with whom you have already established a good relationship. Forget training dogs who are aloof, fearful, dominant aggressive or who have a prey drive that far exceeds their pack/social drive.
b) The dog has to enjoy being praised and touched. This means you cannot train dogs who have never learned to associate praise with good things, and dogs who dislike, fear or have never learned to enjoy being touched.
c) The dog must find your praise and touch more rewarding than any existing distractions (very few dogs find praise and touch more interesting than squirrels, cats, dogs and…food ! )
d) The praise and touch must only be provided as a consequence for correct behavior. If it is offered “for free” then why bother to work for it ? Likewise, if delicious food was constantly available scattered on the floor for the dog, the dog would not be interested in obeying “’sit’ for a treat” ! Personally, I live with dogs because I love them, and I want to be free to touch and praise them as often as I want, and not be restricted to a relationship in which I must keep my affection in reserve to use as a motivator.

You can see how the use of praise and touch as the only forms of reward in old-fashioned dog training contributed greatly to the number of supposedly “untrainable” dogs !
Shouldn’t the dog obey you out of respect and a desire to please you ?
In old-fashioned dog training, it was commonly said that dogs had a desire to please people. Because of this desire to please us, the dog would obey commands. In fact, dogs (like very young children) have a desire to please themselves. Dogs only do things that they want to do. If they happen to want to do something that you also want them to do, then everyone is happy. If not…that is where training is helpful ! Through training, we are able to convince the dog that doing the things we want him to do is pleasing to the dog. Eventually, a great deal of a dog’s trained behavior becomes so much a matter of habit that it begins to look as if the dog wants to please us.

It is unquestionably true that most dogs seek to avoid our disapproval, because when we are angry Bad Things May Happen to Dogs. Likewise, dogs learn that when we are happy Good Things Happen to Dogs, but do not confuse this with a selfless desire for Human Happiness ! Before you come to the conclusion that this makes a dog somehow less extraordinary, stop and think – when was the last time you did something only to please someone else, from which you received absolutely no benefits of any kind ? Like dogs, we humans primarily do things because we receive some benefit – gratitude, money, public recognition, amusement, …

What about the issue of respect? Dog owners frequently confuse Love, Respect and Obedience. Although related and often interwoven, these are three separate issues for both dogs and humans. I may love someone whom I do not obey – like my child. I may obey someone I do not love – a police officer. I may respect someone whom I neither love nor obey – like a public figure. Your dog loves you because you are familiar to him, part of his “family pack”. Your dog respects you (if he respects you!) because you claim Dominant Dog Privileges – you control the food supply, you claim the best sleeping space, you defend your body space by refusing to be mounted, etc. Your dog obeys you (if he obeys you) because he is motivated to do so, and there are only two ways to motivate anyone, whether animal or human… However, if your dog is motivated and respects you, there is no question he will be even easier to train.

It is vital that we do not confuse respect with fear. If the dog fears you, and fears the punishments that will be inflicted for disobedience, then the motivation for the dog’s behavior is to avoid something unpleasant. Fear is a powerful motivator, but it is neither humane nor flexible, and should have no place in teaching a dog new behavior.

Weaning the dog off the treats
A common question is, “If at the beginning of training I am supposed to give a treat for every correct response, then when and how do I wean the dog off the treats? “ In the early stages of training any behavior, it is necessary that the dog receives a reward for every correct response – otherwise the lack of a reward will cause the dog to assume he has given an incorrect response and he will try something different.

Once the dog has learned the connection between a) the command/signal to perform the behavior b) the correct behavior and c) the reward, and the dog believes in the pattern of a-b-c, then it is important to reward only intermittently. In other words, not every correct response gets a reward. This is called a Variable Schedule of Reinforcement.

To understand this, think of the difference between a vending machine and a slot machine. In both cases, your behavior is the same – insert coin and pull lever down. In the case of the vending machine, you expect an immediate reward and if you do not receive it your behavior quickly changes (perhaps you hit or kick the machine) and then disappears (you walk away angry).

In the case of the slot machine, however, you have been “trained” to have different expectations. You do not expect an immediate reward, and so you continue to exhibit the behavior (insert coin, pull lever) for a very long time even without any reward. If the behavior is rewarded occasionally, this strengthens your belief in the value of continuing the behavior, until you reach a stage at which the behavior becomes extremely difficult to eliminate – you’ve become a gambling addict ! In dogs, this is precisely our goal – to train the dog to be addicted to obeying commands/signals, even in the absence of any reward. The dog will continue to gamble that this correct response will earn him a reward – perhaps even a jackpot !

It is very important that you do not ever completely stop rewarding correct responses, or the behavior will probably disappear. The only absolute rule of behavior is Behavior Changes – so if your behavior changes and you stop rewarding the dog, the dog’s behavior will change too!

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Imprinting

So you have a new puppy, and you are wondering if he really needs training... the answer is YES! Even a seasoned dog owner can learn a lot about training - as well as about preventing problems from ever starting - from a really good dog trainer.

Or maybe you know your new pup needs training, but you wonder what is the best age to start... the answer is NOW! It is best to start a puppy's training at 7-8 weeks of age, but it is also never too late to make improvements... even in an old dog!

Young puppies are in the Imprinting Stage, which begins at 8 weeks of age and ends between 12 and 16 weeks of age, depending on the breed. Anything your puppy learns at this time (whether good or bad) becomes part of his permanent knowledge, a sort of "mental reflex." This will be the behavior the adult dog will fall back on when stressed, confused, or frightened. There are three important lessons which MUST be taught during Imprinting or it will be too late! Good manners and obedience to commands can be taught at any age, but the following three lessons can only be taught prior to 16 weeks old, and with some breeds only prior to 12 weeks.

NOTE: For a puppy with "tantrums" the Imprinting Stage is the only time when this problem can be fully cured.

SOCIALIZATION
In dog training language, Socialization means meeting new and different people, animals (especially dogs), places and experiences and ENJOYING them. It does not mean hanging out with a couple of old friends! Young puppies are usually very friendly and outgoing, but if they have not been sufficiently socialized prior to 16 weeks, then the natural prejudice which is an essential survival skill for wild dogs will set in, and the dog will become fearful and aggressive to anyone and anything "different." Many dog bites are the result of an undersocialized dog thinking someone is dangerous simply because their physical appearance is different from what the dog is accustomed to. Luckily it is very easy to socialize a puppy and avoid this problem. The time to introduce your puppy to new things is now. However, do not overwhelm her. You can imprint "bad" things, such as fear of the vet just as easily as "good" things. Proceed slowly, feed trats and make sure she is happy. Never force a puppy into a situation she feels is scary or you will imprint fear!

BITE INHIBITION
Puppies love to play-fight and play-bite. Not only is it their favorite game, but it is how they create bonds with others. Dogs who play-fight with each other are very unlikely to every FIGHT with each other. They have established a trusting, loving bond through play-fighting. To humans, play-biting looks like aggression, and with those sharp little puppy teeth it is certainly very painful! However, if you discourage the puppy from play-fighting with you, you are not only interfering with the pup's ability to bond with you but you are also missing your chance to teach Bite Inhibition. Pups must be taught Bite Inhibition during Imprinting so the if, as an adult, they ever bite anyone, they do not bite hard. This ability to imprint a soft mouth is inherited from the wolf, ancestor of the dog. Wolves are social predators, meaning they hunt as a group. If two wolves get in a fight and injure each other, then the survival of the entire pack is threatened because one or more of the wolves is now unfit to hunt. Therefore, wolves teach their pups to inhibit the force of their bites when putting their teeth on a family member. Dogs can learn this same lesson during Imprinting, and apply it to their "family" - dogs and humans.

RESTRAINT HANDLING
Pups need to learn that a human may hug, handle, and restrain them in any way and they must accept it without fear, aggression, or struggling. This is especially important if the dog is injured and the vet needs to restrain him to examine the wound. That is not the time to try to convince the dog that being restrained is safe! Teach them tolerance, patience, and trust now, or it will be too late.

If you suspect your puppy has "tantrums," please call for help AT ONCE, as this problem can only be cured prior to 16 weeks of age. Alexandra has pioneered the techniques used in Imprinting, and now has over 15 year (and over 3500 dogs) worth of proof that these methods really work!

For information on how to teach the Imprinting information, please schedule an appointment with Alexandra.


"Rambunctious, rumbustious, delinquent dogs become angelic when sitting." — Dr. Ian Dunbar
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